Gay adolescents effected by parents’ reactions to coming out
Filed under: social sciences, society | Tags: American Academy of Pediatrics, Caitlin Ryan, Cesar Chavez Institute, coming out, depression, gays, homosexuality, lesbians, Pediatrics, San Francisco State University, suicide |
A new study released today in the journal Pediatrics indicates that gay adolescents are greatly impacted by how their parents react to them “coming out.” In short, youths whose parents are loving and supportive have better outcomes than those whose parents react negatively.
Among other findings, the study showed that teens who experienced negative feedback were more than eight times as likely to have attempted suicide, nearly six times as vulnerable to severe depression and more than three times at risk of drug use.
More significantly, Ryan said, ongoing work at San Francisco State suggests that parents who take even baby steps to respond with composure instead of rejection can dramatically improve a gay youth’s mental health outlook.
Check out the article (linked to above) for the definitions and methodology of the study along with more details on the findings. The study was conducted by a team of researchers from San Francisco State University’s Cesar Chavez Institute and was led by Caitlin Ryan, the director of adolescent health initiatives. The study took three years to perform.
The story indicates that more gays and lesbians are coming out earlier in life, with the average age among those in the studies being about 16.
“So many families of children who are gay, bisexual or transgender, particularly families of gay male youth, think that if they are tough on the kid and tell him how unsatisfactory his gay lifestyle is to the family, he will have it knocked out of him,” Vermund said.
Vermund said he also was impressed by Ryan’s finding that a little bit of familial acceptance could go a long way in increasing a child’s chances for future happiness.
“The Southern Baptist doesn’t have to become a Unitarian,” he said. “Someone can still be uncomfortable with their child’s sexual orientation, but if they are somewhat more accepting and do the best the can, they will do the youth a lot of good. That to me is an important message.”
In the event that we want to prevent depression, the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases, and suicide, the results of the study are worth considering. If the findings of this study are accurate and withstand further scrutiny, maybe they have something to tell us about the way we treat not just homosexual youths, but adult homosexuals in our society as well.